Dominant Wives Society and Their Cuckold Husbands Volume 1 Thru 3

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As far as enhancing your relationship with your husband, it’s obvious that anything that makes you AND him happier will make the relationship better. Agreed? Great! While many men proclaim to the be the ruler of the roost, the truth of the matter is that in the home, most women are the boss. To conclude, codes and secret signals within a female led relationship are a very personal thing, and every couple will have issues and specific requirements. Some things in life are thought natural and can be hidden amongst acceptable behavior. A gentle femdom wife at a party, asking her husband to kiss her with a raised eyebrow, just looks to onlookers like a loving gesture. When the husband kisses her it looks like an affectionate act. Only the couple might know that he hates public displays of affection, and that raised eyebrow was a ‘do it or punishment will ensue’ look. Femocracy - a world ruled by Dominant Women. See our wide range of programming including lifestyle,

Even amongst friends, a look and a “could you get me another drink” is taken as the instruction it is. Punishments ensue for not doing what is requested. Simply, go and find something else to do. Maybe mistress just wants a bit of girly conversation, or to talk to somebody about something without the sub being present.

After our little exercise, the changes that you should make so that you can enjoy more being the dominant party in your marriage should be obvious: make sure you get more of what you like, less (or none!) of what you dislike and add those other things that you are not yet getting but you would like. You already made notes about what you and your husband need to do to accomplish these things. It’s simple. Now you know what you need to do to make YOURSELF happy. Tell us a little bit about yourselves. How old you are, how long you’ve been married (or, in a relationship), how you heard about domestic discipline, what made you start practicing, etc? Stop drinking– Often used if mistress senses that too much alcohol consumption is taking place. If the mistress wants the sub to slow down or stop she can issue this command. Talk to your partner about what they want. Before you even take things to the bedroom, have an open and honest discussion with your partner. Talk about their sexual desires as well as their boundaries so you can both have a good time. [6] X Research source

They are the ones that take care of the house, do the chores and dictate responsibilities, even if they work outside the home. Really, the only difference in dynamics of domestic discipline in a FLR or a more traditional arrangement with the male as HOH, is that it appears there is a lot more information available out there on traditional arrangements. While people in our society might find domestic discipline practiced in a traditional relationship somewhat difficult to comprehend or support, we think adding the dimension of a FLR into domestic discipline would probably be even more difficult for some people to comprehend or understand. Be attentive to your partner’s needs. Boss your partner around and stay in control, but be responsive to what they ask for. Along with being responsive, know when to stop if your partner looks like they’re in pain. Some minor pain may be desired, but the partner should not be truly hurt. If a mistress is talking and a friend of hers is finishing her drink and mentions it then mistress can instruct the sub to attend to the wishes of her friend.Many in the vanilla world may not understand, and amongst friends and family, it can be loathsome to the point of rebellion to get a sub to openly be flaunted as submissive. It isn't abuse if it is consensual. My girlfriend and I know a couple where the wife uses the same methods that Kathy does with Gary. If her husband misbehaves, she paddles him or canes him. She has been disciplining him this way for more than twenty years and he seems to be happy with it. If he didn't like it, he would surely have left her years ago. My girlfriend is not very dominant by nature, I doubt if she would go as far as the wife. However she did spank me once when I yelled at her. I certainly did not consider this abuse, the spanking saved us from having a fight. We think one misconception people might have about a FLR is that it is some weird, kinky whips and chains relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth in our marriage. Another misconception is that some people may feel the man in a FLR is somehow ‘weak”, or a pushover. Again, nothing could be further from the truth in our marriage. Gary is a very masculine, strong and assertive man. We feel it takes exceptional strength for a man in or society to take the subservient role in his marriage to a strong woman whom he respects. We both have the utmost respect for each other, and for the roles we have accepted to make sure our marriage flourishes. Gary is very dedicated to making Kathy’s life as the dominant partner as stress free and happy as possible. He gets much satisfaction from seeing kathy happy, and enjoys “serving” her to assure her happiness. Likewise, kathy is 100% committed to meeting gary’s needs as a dedicated and loving submissive husband. Act gentlemanly– Upon hearing the required common, the sub is to behave much more gentlemanly than normal. From opening doors, pulling out her chair, offer to get her a glass of wine upon request. Change Topic– If you are talking and see this command, or indeed hear it, you are to change the topic rapidly, and not answer questions that follow up.

However, more often than not a signal needs to be sent where the meaning might not be clear or is immediately obvious. Ambiguity might be an issue for certain instructions. Don’t worry — you’re not alone! Like you, most of us wives in charge ended up in this position at the request of our husbands. What we thought at first was only a passing kink morphed over time to the foundation of a stronger, more loving relationship where we lead and our husbands follow. Yes, it is a lot of work for us – but even more work for our husbands ;)! — but let’s face it, we like being bosses. The question comes up in our minds, though: Are we doing what’s best to enjoy being a dominant wife while enhancing our relationships with our men and keeping them happy? After all, we married them because we love them and we do want to keep them happy…. I know to sort through that sentence and understand the instruction, which is she needs another drink and wants it now. There was a lot of fluff in there, but the instruction is clear. What are some misconceptions you feel people have about the flr dynamic, or your relationship personally? Test out the accessories by yourself first. It requires some learning to use accessories correctly. For example, it takes practice with a whip to give the desired level of pain on the skin of your partner without leaving wounds. Practice with your accessories and learn about them before fully using them. [9] X Research source

Personally, as a prearranged command, any mention of the throat, or the touching of the throat means to desist from verbal communication. Don’t agree to that – During the course of chatting, especially to friends and acquaintances it’s not unnormal to arrange or at least schedule an activity. A male subservient to his wife’s authority in private may hold authority professionally that would be diminished.

MissTiff on Answers to Concerns Women Have About Female Led Relationships, Female Dominant Couples and his fantasyIn addition, the man recognizes that he is the lesser partner, and while he’s at home, he reverts to her guidance and will. Often something simple like a raised eyebrow can be a secret signal. It’s not necessary to complicate it.